So.. Now I'm worried, what if my AH wrecks my house or breaks my stuff or anything like that if he gets really drunk this weekend while I'm away for 4 days? I know he already told his friends that he's getting a divorce and is going to "party hard" this weekend and that he "has the house to himself".
I also know he is vindictive and mean. I don't know if he would break/steal/hurt my things, but has anyone else been in a similar situation? I was already planning on packing up a bunch of my groceries I just bought and taking them to my sister's house. I did some cleaning and vacuuming on sunday, don't know why.. now he gets a clean house to mess up again. Gross. What if his friends are doing drugs there? UG! I've never been worried about this stuff before.
I know everyone will say how will worrying about it make it better, but is there anything I can do to take action before leaving to protect my stuff? I guess if there's anything in particular I'm worried about, I will get it out of the house or something... I don't know
barf. I know the guy is a creep but here's that detachment thing--He's so ready to get me out of the house so he can invite his friends over and party in the home that *I* have been paying *ALL* the bills and mortgage for for the past YEAR!!!! RAAAH.