oh yeah as far as staying somewhere else.. i dont WANT to move out of my house, seeing as my name is on the mortgage and he's letting it deteriorate by not taking care of it and quite possibly not paying any bills or the mortgage! I want him to leave, but he has no family to stay with here. I do, but I don't WANT to leave, I want my own space I worked so hard to pay for and maintain.
He sees things differently. I can leave when I need to, but I'd prefer to have my house!