I'm in.
Like Lahita, I fired my exABF a few days ago (love this way of putting it) and while it's been hard, the journey gets easier, knowing there's lots of love and support here at SR, from new friends in Al-anon and from my family.
Unlike exABF who is living in "splendid isolation" and who wanted me to do the same, having friends and family makes a hard road a lot less lonely to travel down.
As for the shoe shopping-in my case, change that to book shopping. I'll need help though-no more books on addiction - I have enough as it is-perhaps a good ripping romance would be in order....LOL