Cravings are something Dr. Bob, one of the co-founders of AA, lived with almost daily until his death. Still, he remained sober. Others, like Bill W.....and me...........were relieved of cravings from the outset of their recovery. All I can say is that I think it's a "God thing". I would have had no earthly idea how to relieve myself of craving alcohol- and was shocked when it happened for me. Shocked and oh so grateful. That said, I was willing to go to any lengths, any lengths, to stop drinking. That meant there was nothing I wouldn't do to be relieved of my obsession. I believe that that very willingness had something to do with the loss of cravings. So I guess I'd ask you if you are willing to do anything.....or not.