Originally Posted by
brokendown100 
i do not want to leave him. I need his support in trying to help me accept the habit and i need help from others when i am finding it hard to deal with..
You are looking for support from alcoholics and addicts so that you can stay with an active drug addict?
Speaking only for myself, what spiritual/emotional energy I have to give others after dealing with my own personal challenges I reserve for people struggling to stay sober and change their lives. If you want to jump on board the Titanic, go right ahead. But don't ask me to help buy your ticket.