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Old 11-22-2009, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by littlebird77 View Post

Thank you and this is why I would like to say: "You have a month to get a job, any job or I need you to find another place." I know I will get the: "Oh your going to kick me out in the middle of winter."
Then by golly, say it. It's his choice to be out in the middle of winter, or not.

Again, most sober living enviornments require everyone to be out the door by X:00A.M. There is a reason for this.

If he can't find a job, he can volunteer his time and do something productive.

It's all about your own boundaries....for yourself. Is it acceptable to you to put up some guy who sleeps all day and does not contribute anything to the world?
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