Thank you and this is why I would like to say: "You have a month to get a job, any job or I need you to find another place." I know I will get the: "Oh your going to kick me out in the middle of winter." But I am tried and I really can't stand by this. I love him, but as far as romantic feelings a couple should have... nothing. I'm not sure if it will ever return, but when I come home after a day of work and night classes, its hard to have any feelings for someone that just woke up and was sleeping because they were "bored".. (He says he sleeps sometimes to pass the boredom)
Originally Posted by
outtolunch 
That's BS. All sober living enviornments require their guests to become employed in X weeks or they get put out.
The only reason he is not working is because he does not have to do so.
He's got a place to sleep and something to eat. If people did not enable him, he would likely have to grow up and get a job to sustain himself.