Some great posts here, thanks for asking the question.
The first time I heard "grateful alcoholic" it was in a meeting early in my sobriety. I thought the guy must be nuts. But I couldn't get the phrase out of my head.
Now, I realize what he meant. I am a much better person now than I could have been had I not had the support, the love and the imparted wisdom I've gotten in recovery. I am far less judgmental, far more compassionate than I would have been. The generosity I've been shown has made me a more generous person.
I am not happy about the pain and suffering I imposed on the friends and family I have. I am very grateful they love me still.
Love,
Lenina