Off topic - religious in-laws..
Can I keep asking you unrelated questions for the rest of my life? LOL
Bf's grandmom is Catholic.
Bf tells me we may visit her. But that would mean going to mass and he would be teaching me prayers, as grandmom can't go out of her home and some little services are held at her home.
To attend mass one time is one thing, I am respectful, but to go there on Sundays and spend my morning and afternoon doing stuff to please someone else? My bf is not even Catholic but as she is from a very small town, he does those things to make her happy.
I am not sure where is the line between "fitting in" and being a codie again trying to please everybody. I don't want to be a chamaleon again.
My only "solutions" so far are
/ never meeting her grandmom
/ going, but briefly, for lunch or something and avoid the times I know they do religious activities.
Comments welcome...........