Man this alcoholism is ugly, mysterious, brutal stuff. And it's no wonder more women are codie than men, we're hardwired to LOVE and NURTURE.
But this disease is insidious. You can't love enough to nurture an alcoholic. At least I can't and don't want to. It's drowning man syndrome..go ahead and try to help him, he'll drown you as well..
Thanks Naive. brilliant as usual..