My story is a little bit different as my son is already out of the house. Has been on his own for three years now. His drinking has caused him financial difficulties and although he was offered a job and supposed to start this week, I am not so sure that he made it. Have been trying to call for three days and get no answer. Don't know if he went to work and his phone is off or if he is home drunk and just won't answer the phone. Pretty much by the end of the month he is going to have to look for a new place to live and I am not allowing him to move in with me. It is really hard but to keep some sanity that is the way it has to be.
I commend you on your strength. If my son had been living at home I am just not sure if I could be strong enough to make him leave. Thank goodness I did not have to make that choice. Stay strong. I hope he gets the help he needs and soon.