Welcome SS...sorry to hear about your breakup. You're right...about the benefits of doing it sober. Also I've found I'm generally more depressed/sad/cranky when I'm drinking. Not getting good sleep, etc. is a big part of it. Anyway..glad you're here with us!
Dude returns on Friday. A cow, eh? I wish he'd hunt actual cows and chickens...then I'd actually eat the meat! haha.