Originally Posted by
intheknow 
Agree, Still. How many days I just wished for that to happen, because things would eventually get better.
Today, I wish the same for my MIL.
I think this should be (one would hope) a ding ding ding moment.
If you secretly think the answer to your problems might be your alcoholic spouse dropping dead or falling down the stairs and breaking their neck, it might be time to get out of the relationship and work on your own recovery.