Out to lunch.......I actually am more financially secure than he is.....That is why he is asking me for money and food. But, muy response to him is I have to take care of the kids. He said he would pay for their daycare which is 1400 a month for 2 kids. But, I know there is a big possiblity that he wont pay so I have to prepare myself for that too. I got my mortgage reduced from 3500+ a month to 2100. So that helps me some.
He actually came by yesterday and informed me that he would be moving his check from our joint account to his own personal account. Thank goodness because I was gonna close the account this week anyway after some bills cleared. Then he also stated that he doesnt have money for toilet paper...Which is funny becaus ein the last week and a half he took out 220 for pocket money. LOL He told me that he was tired of not having any money or checks. Yeah right he wants checks so that he can do more payday loans. But, he isn't getting any of my checks not even from the joint account. He lasted all of two weeks with taking care of the kids. But, somehow I knew this was coming. i don't have expectations but, I think he is reaching his bottom faster than he ever thought. He was still in denial about being on drugs when he came by yesterday. But, I found it very bizarre that he had on christmas pajama pants under his thin sweats and a dirty t-shirt on. My daughter said hey dad where are all of your clothes. He just said it's cold outside. WEIRD!!!!! Now this is a man who has approx. 50 pair of shoes, 6winter coats, 5 leather jackets, 25-50 pair of pants and an enormous amount of shirts t-shirts cardigans and sweat shirts. He ahs really lost his mind. He asked what I was cooking I said chicken and he said that he was tired of chicken and didnt want any.As he walked out the door he asked for two pieces of chicken. LOL
FF.........He said that he was coming by today to clean up the backyard. If he didnt notice or remember....he hired a gardener 2 years ago!!! Now the funny thing is ... he doesn't know I changed the locks over a week ago and the alarm code and password. I can't wait to tell you guys his reaction
..........He didnt even clean the yard when he was there who does he think he is fooling!!! He probably though that he could come in and take what he wanted WRONG he had the opportunity to take what he wanted in the beginning now he gets NOTHING!!!!!!! Of course unless he asks because he is entitled. He wont be roaming the house when I am not there!!!