Originally Posted by
SelfDestruct 
Everyone is not the same and does not have to live by the same rules. If he is happy and had a positive experience from this moment, then you should not change that, just because you don't view it as a positive experience.
I realize that SD. That's why I 'advised' and 'hoped', I did not dictate. And I highly doubt that I'm the final arbiter of how the poster feels about his relapse anyway.
Nevertheless, I stand by my point that relapses are not a good thing at the time they happen, and that this is a fact that cannot be proven untrue until significant time has passed without another relapse happening. To pronounce a relapse as a 'good thing' in it's immediate aftermath is just asking for trouble. That's my opinion, and I'm sticking to it.