Originally Posted by
kittykitty 
It is obvious to me now that it does not matter if he's telling the truth or not. The only thing that I need to realize from everything that happened today is the simple fact that he is not taking his recovery seriously. If he was serious about being sober, and turning his life around, he wouldn't be doing the things he is doing. Period. If he isn't going to take it seriously, then I can't have anything to do with it.
Right, and because he is not taking his recovery seriously, it is logical to assume he will not HAVE his recovery very long, if he even still has it now. People who behave as he is behaving ALWAYS drink again. So you may as well assume he's drinking now. Even if he isn't, it's only a matter of time.