THANKS SAILOR!
Nice car, home etc is right, everything seems to be a show.
Thanks for sharing this, as I constantly see ex, I have been fooled a lot of times thinking he's got it right, and I am the one exaggerating, making drama etc. but now thanks to the support I got I feel stronger and I know better.
My mantra lately when I see him is "I do remember, and I am not fooled by you anymore."
When I overhear his quacks I leave immediately if I can, climb the stairs and make time so he leaves and when I come back he is not around. Works for me. I feel great when I go through the main door instead of staying at my place overhearing his stupid comments that still harm. I love to think POWER IS NOT HAVING TO RESPOND as ppl say around here... and yes he can quack all he wants about his wonderful life and the fun he has and the love he feels and how great his life is. I DONT HAVE TO LISTEN. And one day I wont give a damn either.
By now he and his usual friends probably noticed I always leave when he comes near me but I am past caring about their opinion :ghug2