If you're anything like me, you've talked to him about it ad nauseum. I tried reasoning, crying, begging, yelling, manipulation, threats, videotaping him drunk and showing it to him, talking to his friends, relatives..........well, you get the idea.
The last conversation we had about it went something like this:
HIM: I'm not letting you or anyone else control me!
ME: You're right, you're a big boy, you do whatever you want. I'll decide what I need to do.
HIM: *mouth open, silence*
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