LOL This reminds me of my AH and his starting a business--- he was more concerned with the way his new office looked, and whether his desk was professional looking and filling up the space with chairs and tables and conference areas for conferences he'd never get around to scheduling.. It was like priority #1 is to look like a legit money-making business. Priority #2--actually working to make the money, was way down below that. I could never understand how someone could be so proud of how the office looked when there was no money being made. It's all about appearances I guess! If you look successful you must be successful! Hence the nice cars, the nice house, the dog and the wife (Me!). He LOOKS responsible because he has a lot of things to be responsible FOR. That doesn't mean he's being responsible. I think that's the confusion.