Originally Posted by
PandorasFate 
I feel like my actions to help him are going to seem pointless to him if I cut him out completely, and he'll relapse. Guess that's part of the codependency that still needs working on.
So I'm a recovering alcoholic, and my response to this is that it's not your job to keep him from relapsing. In fact until HE makes the decision for himself and by himself to be completely sober, there's not a lot you can do.
-Goat