Originally Posted by
intheknow 
I am sad. I am disappointed. My counselor asked again today what I want and what I need - and I still don't know!
If you take your focus off what he is doing, not doing, saying or not saying and put it intensely on this question, the answers will come. Let him be whoever he wants to be and do whatever he wants to do. Only then will you be able to figure out who you want to be and what you want to do.
L