Thank you to all who responded for your much needed love and support. I have really come to rely on SR to guide my path and as a sounding board for my thoughts/actions.
I know someone told me who to PM for a name change, but I can't for the life of me remember who it was or how to find the post with the information. Can someone repost the info for me please?
As for a long term plan, right now, all I've got is
a) start repaying the debts XH accumulated in MY name
b) try to get my daughter adjusted to her new environment.
c) get the legal proceedings and mediation under way as fast as possible
d) uuuhhhh, take it easy?
e) do my very darn best to ignore all the quacking that comes my way
I don't feel ready to even think about moving out on my own. Getting through the evenings with my daughter is just about all I can take. Thank goodness my parents are there to help me care for her. She's regressed on the nightweaning front and wakes often to cry in the middle of the night. I wish I could nap and rest but sleep is hard to come by with a needy insecure baby.
Aside from that, I've been writing down all the "stories" my X told me in the hopes of someday making a little money by selling my book "I married a schizophrenic alcoholic".
Jadmack...the duck imagery is coming in VERY handy these days.
