I really look forward to my weekly one hour session with my addiction counselor. I can vent about whatever's bothering me and get her feedback and perspectives as a 'third party', which helps me to see what I'm doing from a 'strangers' point of view.
Having worked before in a sort of 'social worker' job, I understand she's doing what she's supposed to do: validate my existance and strengthen my defenses, but it's still nice to have someone "on my side" who cares about ME. This (addiction) counselor is one of the best I've ever had too. I trust her absolutely. (she loves animals and has a horse, what's not to like?)
I would be lost without her advice and company and help. I hope your relationship with your counselor/therapist is as helpful as mine has been.
:ghug3 I love ya Bam!