You did just fine, after all you have to cope with moving, and remaking a home for you and your daughter, and that is a stressful business on it's own.
He now knows that further comments will only be in front of a third party, so he will not be free to threaten or menace you as he has.
That has taken away some of his power plays and removed the "fun" from pushing your buttons and driving you bats. Shucks, how sad!!!
As I posted on one of your other threads,
Honey, work on disconnecting those buttons ASAP, so he can push them all he likes and only end up with a sore finger. Trust me, somewhere he will make a real boo boo or hit the booze big time, and blow all his imaginary plots out of the water, but til then STALL.
All the best for a smooth and safe move away from him.
God bless