Thread: Should I ask him why he's leaving me?
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Old 10-29-2009, 06:51 AM
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Still Waters
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Originally Posted by steve11694 View Post
Hi tigger11;

when dealing with active alcoholism, we must not seek logic, reason, or sanity for that matter. The alcoholics brain and mode of thinking is perverted and corrupted. They are very sick people as alcohol is toxic to the brain and all body cells in general.

I once tried to use reason and logic also and try to get answers but believe me, there are no answers short of the alcoholic deciding to seek sobriety.

So sorry for you but you would not be upset with a loved one with cancer that has invaded the brain causing them to be nasty....
I'd like to add: this holds true for many even when they are no longer actively drinking, unfortunately.

My AH is still utterly insane, and he's dry (I think).
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