Sometimes the universe has to give us a nasty push from behind to get us to make a change that we've been secretly plotting. All the plotting in the world won't work if we never make that big move. I'm speaking of my own experience. I put off leaving my A until the chips were finally down and I had to sink or swim. I have had to really paddle to keep my head above water, but it has been worth it.
Congrats to you for looking out for yourself and your baby!! Your new life has begun!
Alice