Thank you - this is my first post. I just got off the phone with my counselor and he said if my bf even WANTS to try and make things work I have to tell him its outpatient rehab and AA or my answer will stay no. I know just how much he hurts me and the idea of being codependent on him is really scary and the last thing I want. Im trying to be strong but I feel so weak. Even though I broke up w him last night I feel like he still holds all the power.