I really don't mind paying the bills if I had the money. The only ones I'm concerned about are the cellphone, his credit card and the car insurance. If I pay these then I honestly can't put food on the table and put gas in the car to get to work. Without him giving me money I cannot afford to pay them. I've always paid them because when he lived here he would give me money the weeks he worked so everything would be paid up. Without that money I can't pay those three bills. That's $250 that I don't have to put out.
This is not a reason to contact him. I'm thinking of feeding the kids and getting to work to pay the mortgage. If these bills weren't due then I wouldn't try to contact him till he's ready to contact me. He hasn't talked with me about anything since he left I don't know what the game plan is. I cannot pay the cellphone because all cellphones will be turned off. If I don't pay the insurance then my insurance on my car will be cancelled so I know the consequences about them needing to be paid. We don't have a house phone so I can't cancel cellphone plan. But if he doesn't give me money to pay those two or three then I have no money for food or gas. And money is very tight now that he is not here. We have no money in savings so what to do. I probably will call him about it because I need to get to work and feed the kids.
He is not contributing to the family account nor has he given me money to help with the kids. I don't think it's fair he gets away scot free and I'm stuck with all the bills. I can handle the house and normal bills but if he isn't living here then I shouldn't have to pay the insurance, part of the cellphone that is his and his credit cards. Now I'm ready to cry because honestly I don't know what to do about it.
How can we make an agreement if he won't talk with me? He blames me for his drinking for 20 years still till this day and he's out spending his money on booze and driving my truck that's insured. The truck is in my name. God forbid he does a hit and run while drunk and they come after me because it's in my name. How am I going to prove I wasn't driving. I already told him that if he is to not come back as he was packing that I need the plates of the truck and I'll give him a bill of sale for him to register and insure it.
I'm not a vindictive person and don't want to do anything mean to him or hurt him. Yes, i have checked who he's called but other than that I have done nothing to him.
Wouldn't you try and feed your kids over paying someone's bills that aren't living with you anymore? He never took responsibility before so I guess why should he now.
I guess I answered my own question and make the call or text and ask him for the money to pay them.