I am planning on getting an attorney, as soon as I can afford one. One thing is for sure - I can't talk to AH about it anymore. He either resorts to calling me all kinds of awful names or tries to manipulate me with fake niceness. I'm glad that I can now see it for what it is, instead of getting all riled up and wondering if I am the problem.
One thing I am really unsure about - I don't know if I should ask the court that he have only supervised visitation. I like to think that he can keep his drinking under control when he has the kids. But if I'm to follow the advice I read, alcoholics without treatment usually get progressively worse. He now has a car, which scares the living daylights out of me. I know that if I go for supervised visitation for him, he'll see it as me being [all of the names he has called me]. Haha, I guess I'm not that far from wondering if I'm the problem. Anyway, what have others done in a situation like this?