I think all of us have struggled with those feelings no matter which one decided it was over and done with. Obviously we had wishes, dreams, hopes, pleasures...and it hurts to lose those. It does. Just keep your mind/thoughts in reality and your heart will follow..but don't continue to just sit there and wait for it to happen...go ahead and do something that you enjoy or that takes your mind off it. Can you go away for the rest of the weekend...maybe visit an inspiring park and wander some trails....or hit the mall and get a manicure and your hair done...a spa and massage...pamper yourself like you would someone else whom you loved when they were hurting. Take yourself out for a good time, a great meal, or snuggle up with a great book and some chocolates....whatever it takes that helps you feel some better now...escercise releases happy endorphins...if you can put all that love energy into yourself you can help ease the hurt and suffering, begin to feel better and shorten the process of the transition and the worrying and wondering and etc that is really, really fruitless....well, actually it does bear fruit but not a pleasant or constructive one. Don't hurt yourself just because someone else has hurt you!!!!!!