Originally Posted by
Iwanttoheal 
PS Our sailing day was cold, wet and windy but great fun, we're going again in a couple of weeks.
Sounds great! I like to play golf on that kind of day -- when most people are cancelling their tee times!
You're doing well -- I am not, in any way, shape, or form, able to confront my Dad the way you're describing. That's why I say (at meetings) that if he and I were the same age (and, obviously, the relationship were different), I'd have no choice but to kick him out of my life and just refuse to contact him in any way. It sounds like you're definitely ont he right track!
Keep it up!
T