Originally Posted by
cece1960 
Hi Rozied.
The best way to get a point across to my AS is one simple word...NO. Anything more seems to invite discussion.
Chances are he will see things differently than you do, so I would stick with whatever the family needs, in the case being him to make other arrangements.
(((Hugs)))
Your taught me that NO is a complete sentence and does not need to be justified or rationalized.
The sooner this man knows, the more time he has to find an alternative arrangement.
He will stay straight or not, regardless of where he lives.