Like everyone who has already responded, I have had exactly those same feelings. Short blurb -- we have three dogs and used to foster for rescue. Once, years ago, one of the dogs drank too much water and threw up. My H has OCD and other issues...so in order to avoid EVER having to clean up thrown up water on the floor (I know, big deal right?) -- Ever since, whenever a dog started to drink water, he would start yelling at them to stop. Needless to say, 3 big dogs in our house = many opportunities during the day to yell at them. I would ask him to stop, he would deny it was a problem. Continue yelling. I told him how much it bothered me. He didn't change the behavior. Several times a night one of the dogs would start drinking, he would start yelling. After a couple of years, literally, every time he started to yell again, I would close my eyes and just WISH HE WOULD DIE. Seriously. I wished he would die. How sick was my thinking? Pretty much so.