So there is no hope ever with any addict?
There is always hope, Lavash.
But one cannot have expectations.
And Hope is not a plan.
I always find it best to ask myself about acceptance.
Can I accept this person just as they are? And do I want this ACTUAL just as they are person in my life? Or am I banking on potential & hoping that potential is realized? Or am I only accepting 1/2 this person- or the parts I like (the times interlaced with the insanity when he/she is sober or thoughtful or supportive?).
Queenteree- thank you for your post/update--continued strength and courage to you as you move forward!
peace-
b