Thanks for your concern!
I'm trying to go one day at a time... trying not to expect too much and hoping for the best. But I do have a plan, if he does get drunk and abusive again - I will leave!!
Ago - Thx for pointing that out. I know, got the books, have been to some AlAnon meetings and been reading and posting in the family section. Even though I'm kinda obsessing over his behavior right now, I am trying to work on myself. I guess I just needed some feedback from people that can understand what he's going through.