Thanks so much I appreciate the feedback already! Right now he's getting it from people he knows. He's so intelligent, but as i stated earlier it's like he prides himself on the fact that at this point he's a functioning addict.
When I realized he was drinking during the week like this and noticed the speed every night at which he drinks i told him that it worried me. He hasn't stated he's an alocholic/drug addict - he admits "it's" a problem.
His other denial is that vicodin isn't a "drug".
Did those of you who went through this and recovered - whether it was you or someone you knew - go through rehab or a program? What would you want those around you to do/say looking back?