The wonderful thing about our site here, SR, is that each of us has our own unique path. Some of us are new to recovery for ourselves or our loved ones, some have been at it awhile, some have fought it tooth and nail.
It's always best if we simply share our own experience, strength and hope if we have some similar things that have happened in our own lives. When a topic or thread starts to disintegrate into disecting sentences and inuendos, it's time to move onto other things.
If you have some good ESH to share, then by all means, please continue to do so.