Hi,
Thanks. Yes, TC, he IS married to the woman he left me for...guess that is working out, NOT.
Apparently he has called several times. No one wanted to say anything to me. Then felt I needed to know. I moved back to my old town, actually to the town next to my old town. Been doing my own thing and reconnecting with my friends who are not pals with him. Anyway, I have been very happy the past two weeks for the first time in 10 months. Even been on a few dates with an old friend. New business venture brewing and generally just, well, peaceful. After a few hours of "oh crap it's happening again" it passed and my friends have been great.
I am sure glad I am not with my ex and I am definitely glad I am not the OW he married.