Originally Posted by
jamdls 
Hi Tom it's like the old saying "woman marry a man hoping they will change, men marry a woman they hope won't change". Definetly sounds more like marital problems than alcohol problems. Good luck.
Thanks for the welcomes and Kind words. I will add that you are only hearing my side of the story. They way I see it. She has a totally different view of it. And to this day don't totally or in some cases partially understand it. Especially the part about me being mean. If I disagree or stand up for something I believe. I'm mean.
Your saying I have heard, and there is more truth to it that many want to believe.
I try to except people for who they are. I will crack jokes about the guy with his jeans around his knees. But in reality, It's a free land and one can dress like he/she wishes.
I truely try to be nice to everyone. Thats why this mean comment baffles me.