Per her request I did go see her pastor. He wanted to see us one on one first.
Then it was her turn and she told me she didn't feel comfortable talking to him alone. But then told me she finally did. Not sure what if anything got resolved.
Now I'm just waiting to find out when or if we will be seeing him together.
I have cut back on my drinking. It's not hard, But I just don't understand why I feel that I'm the only one that is suppose to change. I was like this when she married me, But since she decided to change, I'm expected to also. Now, I'm just not good enough. When Asked that question I was told that I needed to grow up.
I don't go to bars. I don't do the strip club scene. I don't cheat. I don't hit anyone. All I do is go to work, and come home now. I still like to see my friends once a week (all Males) But I'm a bad Guy. Why? Cause she can smell beer. Then harps on me about something and calls me mean when I stand up for myself.