Hi ApprovalPending
Welcome to SR
Congratulation on your sober time!
I think you're right that you need an outlet - have you considered AlAnon or NarAnon?
We also have Family and Friends forums here that you may want to check out as well.
Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information Friends and Family of Substance Abusers - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
It's so important to keep reaching out - and you'll find a lot of good advice here at SR into the bargain
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