Welcome Duey... but sad that you have decided to be here. There are many wonderful people here who will be along to offer support. This forum has helped me so much. People like your wife and others have been a life line for me as I have dealt with the pain that addiction causes in each of our lives. Read around, keep coming here and know that we all are praying and supporting you. As I said to Bonnie a couple days ago... big hugs across the state!