I'm sorry you feel that way Laura - I disagree.
Like Anna said, it is life and death for many of us...me included - I nearly died trying to moderate.
Frankly, Laura - it makes me incredibly sad to see so many people unwilling to let go of something that's clearly destroying their lives.
I also disagree vehemently with the idea that this is not a place where people can speak their mind - Anna, I and all the other admin here spend our days making sure that, regardless of what I or anyone else might think personally, everybody gets a fair hearing.
I wish you well - I'm sorry to see you leave such a great support, but it's your call.
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