Originally Posted by
bluebella 
i am just trying to give myself some peace- and validate the issue that -drugs have ruined this guy and there is nothing i have done-this is what they do
is this a pattern?????????
"THEY" (addicts) don't all just up and disappear. They all have different characteristics. Some don't leave. Some hang around for as long as they can. Some leave for a brief moment and check in with loved ones every once in awhile. Each it's own. Like others have said, it will never be understood unless you are an addict yourself. Hell, most addicts don't even have the answers. This is why addiction is the most incurable and resistant disease to treat.
I am truly sorry you had to go through this experience. You can only get stronger from here.
