Strugglin with...
Okay, I'm having a weak moment and need some advice.
As some of you know.. I have been on here a while and my ABF is currently in rehab. He acknowledges he is powerless over the drug and is doing quite well. He knows not to call me collect and WE are both fine with this. It keeps him grounded and it also keeps me in perspective.
My struggle is:
I have been supportive in visiting him and giving him stamps and envelopes but that's about it. I don't bring him hygiene, food, money, cigarettes, calling cards etc. However, what would you consider enabling, etc. when they are in treatment? Is bringing a plate of food considered enabling? I mean, I know I'm being technical and hard on him but what would you suggest?