Your husband may have addictive disease but he is not, and should never be, the most important person in your family, the one around whom all others orbit.
I'm glad he has started some recovery. Make him accountable as an adult to deal in an adult way with his disease.
But always be careful not to make him #1. With everyone else a distant second.
One of the worst things for an addict is people allowing him to be the center of the universe.
No one wins. Things get worse.
Do take care,
you and your little girl,
Bluejay