Originally Posted by
confusedfiance 
as i said, i've been going to the meetings, but all i hear is negativity. most of the addicts of the people there are not in recovery and don't want to be. i think i am getting worse from going to na-anon and maybe even from reading these posts.
Have you tried going to an Al-Anon meeting vs. Nar-Anon? I have seen the difference in the two myself. I prefer Al-Anon more.