This is my mantra (below quote)... My feeling is instead of calling everything quits, something you are strongly debating and cannot commit to a decision just yet. I try to do things that I can commit to... Focus on yourself and go to meetings. There are so many signs overlooked and I can see how you overlooked them, no more excuses, now you know what is up. You need to work on yourself and educate yourself on this topic. Keep coming to the board and look into some meetings for yourself.
Originally Posted by
laurie6781 
Just remember the 3 C's:
You didn't Cause this.
You can't Control this.
You can't Cure this.