TakingCharge said:
But honestly... I see this ex totally smiley, careless and seemingly having the time of his life and I wonder why we are suffering so much or are "worried" about them? when they do not worry about themselves or give a damn about anything... I guess that is alcoholism too, making others feel bad instead of themselves. I still recall a particularly bad night and his shrugging off the next day "I dont remember what I said" then munching Corn flakes as if everything was good. When confronted he said "I may not mean what I say while drunk"
The cornflake picture you put in my head is hilarious. Here's one for ya': My crackhead brother, at approximately 35 years old, with a crackhead wife and two small children, blowing through $75,000 of cocaine and whatever else within one year, while my little mother, age 65, struggles to keep her head above water. :wtf2
Not a care in the world. They say and do whatever they want. Hard to feel sorry for someone like that.