Beach Angel, I am very fortunate that my cousin lives out of state. I would not see her in person for sure. All she does is drink.
If I were in your situation, I would let them know that you are working on your sobriety and that until you have more time under your belt, you need to focus on YOU.
Maybe after time has passed and they realize how serious and determined you are to be sober, they will not call you when drinking, drink around you, etc.
Hopefully they themselves will not continue to be a trigger for you forever.
Good luck!
